I've been married for 20yrs but im not in love anymore its boring I've tried to spice things up so many way's but she yust wants me to be boring I want to feel like I did back then I want to love laugh. Im very confused.
To Genaro C: After twenty years you and your wife should have some good memories to share. Pick a special time when you and your wife are relaxed and alone to remember and "rekindle" an old sentiment. Maybe play an old favorite song while you're both recalling good times.
She's too busy banging his best friend :-) Funny, my folks have been married (happily) for 44 years. They still go on "dates", still show affection and generally like each other's company. Don't know what this dude's problem is. Maybe instead of harping on the sexual aspect, try "courting" your wife again. You know, all the stuff you did while dating. Oh, and toys don't hurt either!